Sunday, September 19, 2010

This Arab Guy Is Just Not That Into You!

"Without a commitment, people will leave you for someone else who is better than you."

What about the other Arab men, how do you really know if they are serious in the relationship? This question is very common to a non-Arab woman who is in a relationship with an Arab man. 

For me, there are so many clues, just don't be so naive. Best clue I can give is:  If the woman is the one who makes effort to call or meet  the Arab guy, especially if he lives on the other side of the world and because he has so many excuses (you know what they say, if there's a will...), then obviously the Arab man is NOT serious about the relationship. Come on, he IS the man so he should be the one coming to you, not the other way around. So, run away girl, run fast, run far!

I've observed that, generally, Arab men don't like to be told what to do or not to do. They do things because they love and want to do it not because they have to do it or you've asked them to do it. They have a high respect to women and their feelings provided that they (women) are not demanding or domineering. They are born stubborn so don't be surprised if they do the opposite of what you tell them to do. (Okay, I said generally, not all, LOL).

Back to the topic, if an Arab man really wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. And I think this goes to all the men, Arab or non-Arab, all around the world.

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P.S. Image above courtesy of Culture & Politics in the Arab World